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    How To Find and Hire the Best NYC Matchmaker

    Have you tried your luck with dating apps? After years of unsuccessful dates, are you ready to
    delete them from your phone? Maybe you are simply thinking about kindling a romance after a
    divorce, break-up, streak of horrible encounters, or a long, needed time off from dating.
    Whatever your situation, finding a great NYC matchmaker can be a turning point in your love

    According to a recent article in The Wall Street Journal, NYC matchmaking services are
    becoming increasingly popular. The trend to seek expert assistance particularly makes sense for
    busy New York professionals who are serious about happy, healthy, and meaningful long-term

    What do professional NYC matchmakers do?

    Professional matchmakers have an extensive network of available singles who have signed up
    for a matchmaking service to be introduced to potentially compatible partners. NYC
    matchmaking has been around for quite some time. These are some of main features of the
    vetted high-end matchmaking process:

    1. The best matchmakers only work with select clientele and get to know the most relevant
      things about them. The “get to know” interview process can be extensive, as the matchmaker
      analyzes your personality type and what you are looking for. Your matchmaker will uncover
      your likes and dislikes, explore your lifestyle needs, examine your career goals, and learn your
      preferences in an ideal partner.
    2. Once a professional matchmaker has enough information about you, they use their vast
      database and network connections to source the best matches for you. NYC matchmakers
      constantly add new singles to their rolodexes.
    3. Matchmakers meet and screen every dating candidate face-to-face – the same way they
      conduct your “get to know” interview. When they interview different potential mates, they ask
      the same questions that you’d ask on a first date and weed out people who have incompatible
    4. After the strenuous and diligent background check, the matchmakers present you with
      potential prospects. You might be sent on a completely blind date, or be provided with contact
      details, a video, or other information prior to your first meet up.
    5. After a first date, the matchmaker requests feedback. Your honest responses are managed
      with discretion and sensitivity. Sometimes, the first person you go on a date with checks all
      your boxes. Other times, you may want to go on a couple of different dates and see who you
      click with the best.

    In addition to the services mentioned above, many matchmakers offer other services, like
    dating advice, relationship coaching, fashion advice, etiquette classes, and so much more.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Q. How much does it cost to hire a great matchmaker in New York?
    A. Matchmaking is a lengthy and intricate process that requires lots of work. The value and
    services you’ll receive with a great matchmaker are reflected in the cost of the service.
    Typically, NYC matchmaking services are expensive. But they are well worth the cost,
    which depends on many factors, including the choice of services you sign up for.

    Q. Where can I find a NYC matchmaker who’s right for me?
    A. There are two basic routes you can take to find a matchmaker to solve your dating dilemma.

    1. Word-of-mouth
      Ask friends and relatives who might know about the NYC matchmakers near you.
      Matchmakers are big on marketing and word-of-mouth, as that’s how they increase
      their database of potential matches for you.
    2. Online search
      If you want to keep your search for potential mates private, then online searching is
      your best bet. All you need to do is type “professional matchmaker near me” in your
      internet browser, and a list of local NYC matchmaking services will appear for you to
      choose from. Make sure you look down the page and do not just pick from paid ads.

    Q. How do I make sure I hire the best matchmaker for me?
    A. Regardless of the search option you choose, vetting a matchmaker before booking an
    appointment is crucial. You will invest both money and trust in your matchmaker. You’ll want to
    know they are reputable, understand your requirements, and are worthy of your investment.

    Here are five criteria to check a professional matchmaker’s credibility:

    1. They show you up-to-date profiles of people they feel are matches for you.
      They have at least two to three clients who meet your criteria. A common complaint
      about online dating sites and apps are photos that are wildly out-of-date or even
      photoshopped. A good matchmaker does a background check, checks the person’s ID,
      and makes sure everyone they present you with has recent photos that look like them
    2. Evaluate the sales tactics.
      Matchmakers who employ high-pressure sales tactics to bring people in usually have a
      “meet the quota” mindset. If their promises are too good to be true, they probably are.
    3. Are they 100% focused on you and who you want to meet?
      If a matchmaker is more interested in your credit score than what sort of person makes
      your heart thump, it’s a red flag.
    4. Ask about pricing and packages.
      A wide majority of professional NYC matchmaking businesses refrain from advertising
      prices online. But they should answer you candidly when you ask for numbers upfront. If
      you can’t get a direct answer during your consultation about how much you can
      realistically expect to pay, that’s also typically a red flag.
    5. Shop around.
      There are many great matchmaking services in the market today. When searching and
      contacting different services, you can compare prices and packages and select the one
      whose offer best suits you.

    Q. What makes Elite Connections one of the best matchmaking services in the NYC area?
    A. Thanks to our modern take on matchmaking and nearly three decades of experience, Elite
    Connections has one of the largest databases of eligible singles worldwide.

    People who sign up with Elite Connections are much more serious about finding the right
    person. The matchmakers hold them accountable for their answers to personal questions,
    including personal details like age and appearance. You decide what you want and control how
    the process flows. We take a more personal approach, so you only meet people you’re
    attracted to and interested in.

    Q. What is the first step?
    A. Simply book a quick consultation with us. Together we’ll explore the best strategy to get you
    going out on high-quality dates.